Come, O children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the Lord. Which of you desires life, and covets many days to enjoy good? Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking deceit. Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it. (Psalm 34: 11-14)

In my work I often negotiate contracts. The best contracts are clear regarding the exchange of value. Usually the exchange is defined by one party delivering services or products for which a monetary payment is provided by the other party.

The psalmist suggests an exchange of value: In order to receive a long and good life the party of the first part shall not say untruthful and hurtful things. Further, the party of the first part shall be kind, creative, and contribute to wholeness in all things.

The contract is usually an important step in defining a new relationship. The details of the negotiation can help both parties come to understand one another and clarify mutual expectations. The negotiator in me would want to further define hurtful, kind, creative, and wholeness.

But the most productive relationships soon transcend the need for detailed negotiation of terms. In such a relationship we sometimes say that the parties demonstrate "good faith" regarding the exchange of value. This is especially important in the services industry where the delivery can be somewhat intangible.

To receive the life God intended we must demonstrate consistent good faith.