Come, O children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the Lord. Which of you desires life, and covets many days to enjoy good? Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking deceit. Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it. (Psalm 34: 11-14)

We honor God when we are careful in what we say.

Jesus taught, "What goes into a man's mouth does not make him 'unclean,' but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him 'unclean.' " (Matthew 15: 10)

When we speak badly of others we hurt those of whom we speak, those to whom we speak, and - especially - ourselves.

When we speak of what is pleasant, helpful, and beautiful we contribute to wholeness and pursue peace.

This need not - should not - imply dishonesty, stupidity, callowness, or gullibility. It does imply being able to speak of others - even those who hurt us - with respect, sympathy, empathy, and love.

Above is Lips (1991) by Kim.